Do not try and bend the spoon. That's impossible. Instead... only try to realize the truth.
There is no spoon.
Then you'll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.
1. preoccupation with or emphasis on material objects... (We're talking about definition 2)
2. the philosophical theory that regards matter and its motions as constituting the universe, and all phenomena, including those of mind, as due to material agencies.